Quora Answers: The Malicious Narcissist

What Are Some Of The Most Calculated, Malicious Set-Ups You Endured While With A Narcissist? There are two especially diabolical set ups that stand out for me. One was intended to kill me. The other was meant to put me in prison for solicitation of capital murder. Both were terrifying. I know now that my ex-husband is a Malignant Narcissist, who was very skilled at gaslighting and mind-fuckery. Toward the end of our marriage, I just thought he was crazy. I had also started to think my own sanity was questionable. One morning after a nasty argument, the narc stormed … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Malicious Narcissist

Quora Answers: Why Did I Ignore All The Red Flags?

Why Did I Stay Knowing She Was A Narcissist? Most likely, for the same reason I did. Because the benefit of being in love was worth the risk that your instincts were wrong. In the beginning, you had no idea what kind of hell was in store for you. How could you have known? Normal people simply don’t think about choosing a victim to fuck over in every possible way. It would have been inconceivable to you that the person who mirrored your best traits was actually the devil in a red dress. In hindsight, it’s much easier to recognize … Continue reading Quora Answers: Why Did I Ignore All The Red Flags?

Narcissistic Victim Syndrome And CPTSD

Quora Answers: Is There A Formal Test/Assessment Procedure For Narcissistic Victim Syndrome? When I began to heal after ending my 18-year marriage to a Malignant Narcissist, I sought help from a psychiatrist for my son and myself. The doctor talked to us at length, both together and separately. He explained that Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome isn’t recognized as an official diagnosis. It is, however, a very real condition that is often accompanied by complex PTSD, which is a recognized diagnosis. I had heard of PTSD, of course, but I knew nothing about CPTSD. The difference is that PTSD is generally associated … Continue reading Narcissistic Victim Syndrome And CPTSD

Flying Monkey, Narcissist, Or Another Victim?

Quora Answers: Do Flying Monkeys Pretend To Take Your Side? She Admits He’s Abusive And Complains About Him. Then She Turns Around And Shows Me Posts About How Much He Loves His New GF. Flying monkeys will definitely pretend to take your side when they’re trying to manipulate you on behalf of the Narcissist. However, I’m not so sure that’s the case here. Two possible scenarios come to mind. One is that she’s also a Narcissist, and is enjoying herself at your expense. It could be a version of the mean-sweet cycle in toxic romantic relationships. She pretends to be … Continue reading Flying Monkey, Narcissist, Or Another Victim?

Quora Answers: What Are The Long-Term Effects Of Narcissistic Abuse?

Long-term exposure to Narcissistic Abuse can wreak havoc on victims long after leaving their abusers. Along with the devastating effects of PTSD and C-PTSD, survivors are left with permanent changes to their brains. In other words, repeated emotional trauma, over … Continue reading Quora Answers: What Are The Long-Term Effects Of Narcissistic Abuse?

Quora Answers: INFJ Relationships

Do INFJ’s Seem Needy Or Clingy In Romantic Relationships? There are times when I feel really needy or clingy, but I try not to show it. For some reason, it’s not easy for me to reveal certain vulnerabilities and weaknesses. Instead, I have a tendency to expect my fiancé to just know what I need and give me the comfort I desire. That’s obviously not an easy feat. Yet, I get discouraged if he doesn’t read my mind. To make matters worse, if he’s unable to recognize my neediness, I start to distance myself emotionally. What follows is not pleasant … Continue reading Quora Answers: INFJ Relationships

Quora Answers: The Narcissistic Landlord

What Are The Red Flags Of A Narcissistic Landlord? Narcissistic landlords will invade your privacy at will. This includes entering your living quarters without your knowledge or consent. Although this is illegal, the narc sees absolutely nothing wrong with it. He’ll also have no qualms about pilfering your belongings if he fancies something for himself. As is true of all Narcissists, smear campaigns and senseless gossip will be a regular occurrence. He’ll entertain himself by creating drama and chaos for unsuspecting neighbors who would otherwise co-exist peacefully. These landlords will be unlikely to properly maintain the rental units, and may … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Narcissistic Landlord

How Evil And Vengeful Is A Covert Malignant Narcissist To Their Victim?

Quora Answers: Why Do They Seem So Innocent And Charming To Everyone Else? They’re the equivalent of Satan in human form, if that tells you anything. They gleefully create a living hell for their victims. The false innocence and charm … Continue reading How Evil And Vengeful Is A Covert Malignant Narcissist To Their Victim?