How Good Are INFJ’s At Spotting When Someone Is Lying?

As a younger INFJ, I would get a feeling in the pit of my stomach sometimes when I was with other people. A feeling that’s hard to describe. I knew that it made me feel uneasy all of a sudden. But I didn’t know why. As I matured and became self-aware, I learned to recognize that feeling as my INFJ Radar, telling me that someone is lying. And it is extremely accurate. I may not immediately know why someone is lying, although that will readily become apparent. But I know they’re being deceptive in some way. Whether I acknowledge that … Continue reading How Good Are INFJ’s At Spotting When Someone Is Lying?

Quora Answers: Narcissists And Serial Infidelity

Is Infidelity A Given When It Comes To A Narcissist? If So, Why? When it comes to a narcissist, infidelity is a given. It is a fact of life that narcissists are serial cheaters. If you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, this is a painful concept to grasp. But denial won’t make it less true. One of the reasons Narcissists cheat is because of their unquenchable thirst for Narcissistic Supply. They have multiple sources in order to keep a steady flow of adoration, attention, and praise. Narcissists aren’t hindered by morals or values, and see nothing wrong with their … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists And Serial Infidelity

The Path To Greatness Doesn’t Always Lead To Happiness

A man and his wife were lost in the forest when they came upon a clearing. Before them, they saw three paths. Being lost, they were unsure which path to choose. Suddenly a wise old owl appeared. The man asked the owl which path they should take. The owl told him that one path led to Greatness. One path led to Greatness And Happiness. And the third path led to The Unknown. The owl said that each path had pitfalls and dangers. They would have to be very careful, regardless of which path they chose. He advised the man to … Continue reading The Path To Greatness Doesn’t Always Lead To Happiness

Quora Answers: The Aging Narcissist

Does A Narcissist’s Behavior Get Worse With Age? The narcissists I’ve known certainly got worse with age. Much worse. I’ve read reports from psychologists who claim the opposite to be true. Their opinions are that narcissists mellow with age. I disagree wholeheartedly. When a person with NPD begins to age, their human bodies may slow them down. Inside their devious minds, however, they don’t mellow. If anything, they become more bitter and miserable. My Malignant Narc ex-husband is a perfect example of going from bad to worse with age. Over the years, he became more and more abusive and downright … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Aging Narcissist

Quora Answers: Narcissists, Holidays, And Covert Sabotage

Why Do Narcissistic Mates Set Out To Destroy Holidays And Birthdays? My BD Is Tomorrow And My Narc Started An Argument Yesterday So He Can Give Me The Silent Treatment On My Birthday. It’s a form of covert sabotage. His goal is to ruin your happiness and keep the attention on himself. Narcissists are very jealous. For example, you have to attend a work event because you’re getting an award. The narcissist may hide your car keys, or “accidentally” spill a drink on your thank-you speech. Anything to wreak havoc on your joy. If you’re looking forward to seeing your … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists, Holidays, And Covert Sabotage

Quora Answers: Narcissists, Flying Monkeys, And Projection

Has Anyone Ever Had A Suspected Narcissist Call The Police On Them? Oh yeah. He also convinced them that I was trying to hire a hit man to have him killed, which spawned an investigation that lasted for months. The first few times my Malignant Narcissist ex-husband called the police, I was stunned at the way I was treated. The lies he told were ludicrous. The fact that the cops believed him was incomprehensible. I was bruised and bleeding, the house was destroyed, and our son told the deputies the truth. Yet, the police called me crazy, accused me of … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists, Flying Monkeys, And Projection

Quora Answers: Malignant Narcissists And Animal Cruelty

Do You Think That A Malignant Narcissist Will Torture An Animal If Out Of Sight, Or Alternatively Perhaps In Sight Of A Person They Seek To Psychologically Destroy? I know for a fact they will. They’ll do it both out of sight and in front of a person they seek to destroy, as a sick game of psychological torture. My Malignant Narcissist ex-husband abused my dog so badly that I gave her away. On many occasions, I witnessed him kicking and hitting her. After he picked her up and threw her against the wall, I knew I couldn’t keep her … Continue reading Quora Answers: Malignant Narcissists And Animal Cruelty

“Dating Harley Quinn” Is A Must-Read For Victims Of Narcissistic Abuse

My good friend, Lee Miller, is a fellow Quora Author and Survivor of Narcissistic Abuse who has written a book that every victim needs to read. There’s no part about Dating Harley Quinn that I don’t recommend. After finding himself on the brink of suicide following his relationship with a female narcissist, Lee managed to claw his way back from hell. His wisdom and insights are priceless for those in similar situations. I know. I’m speaking from firsthand experience. On many occasions, Lee guided me back from the depths of despair when I was lost with no direction. I can … Continue reading “Dating Harley Quinn” Is A Must-Read For Victims Of Narcissistic Abuse