Quora Answers: Can A Narcissist Be Faithful?

Is It Possible For A Narcissist Not To Cheat In 35 Years? I Never Caught Him But He Discarded Me When I Had Cancer. It’s Over. I Exposed Him As A Narcissist And We’re Divorcing. Why Does He Continue To Deny Cheating? Anything is possible, but it’s highly unlikely that he never cheated. You say it’s over, and for your sake, I really hope you mean it. Your narcissist husband, on the other hand, may have other plans. He’s probably planning a hoover attempt sooner or later. It’ll be a challenge for him to suck you back in so he’ll … Continue reading Quora Answers: Can A Narcissist Be Faithful?

Quora Answers: The Argumentative Narcissist

Why Does A Narcissist Always Start Arguments Over Little Things? Narcissists intentionally start arguments in order to provoke an emotional reaction from you. When the inevitable boredom sets in, they lure you into circular conversations to entertain themselves. Picking a … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Argumentative Narcissist

Quora Answers: The Malicious Narcissist

What Are Some Of The Most Calculated, Malicious Set-Ups You Endured While With A Narcissist? There are two especially diabolical set ups that stand out for me. One was intended to kill me. The other was meant to put me in prison for solicitation of capital murder. Both were terrifying. I know now that my ex-husband is a Malignant Narcissist, who was very skilled at gaslighting and mind-fuckery. Toward the end of our marriage, I just thought he was crazy. I had also started to think my own sanity was questionable. One morning after a nasty argument, the narc stormed … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Malicious Narcissist

Quora Answers: Why Did I Ignore All The Red Flags?

Why Did I Stay Knowing She Was A Narcissist? Most likely, for the same reason I did. Because the benefit of being in love was worth the risk that your instincts were wrong. In the beginning, you had no idea what kind of hell was in store for you. How could you have known? Normal people simply don’t think about choosing a victim to fuck over in every possible way. It would have been inconceivable to you that the person who mirrored your best traits was actually the devil in a red dress. In hindsight, it’s much easier to recognize … Continue reading Quora Answers: Why Did I Ignore All The Red Flags?

Narcissistic Victim Syndrome And CPTSD

Quora Answers: Is There A Formal Test/Assessment Procedure For Narcissistic Victim Syndrome? When I began to heal after ending my 18-year marriage to a Malignant Narcissist, I sought help from a psychiatrist for my son and myself. The doctor talked to us at length, both together and separately. He explained that Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome isn’t recognized as an official diagnosis. It is, however, a very real condition that is often accompanied by complex PTSD, which is a recognized diagnosis. I had heard of PTSD, of course, but I knew nothing about CPTSD. The difference is that PTSD is generally associated … Continue reading Narcissistic Victim Syndrome And CPTSD

Flying Monkey, Narcissist, Or Another Victim?

Quora Answers: Do Flying Monkeys Pretend To Take Your Side? She Admits He’s Abusive And Complains About Him. Then She Turns Around And Shows Me Posts About How Much He Loves His New GF. Flying monkeys will definitely pretend to take your side when they’re trying to manipulate you on behalf of the Narcissist. However, I’m not so sure that’s the case here. Two possible scenarios come to mind. One is that she’s also a Narcissist, and is enjoying herself at your expense. It could be a version of the mean-sweet cycle in toxic romantic relationships. She pretends to be … Continue reading Flying Monkey, Narcissist, Or Another Victim?

Quora Answers: What Are The Long-Term Effects Of Narcissistic Abuse?

Long-term exposure to Narcissistic Abuse can wreak havoc on victims long after leaving their abusers. Along with the devastating effects of PTSD and C-PTSD, survivors are left with permanent changes to their brains. In other words, repeated emotional trauma, over … Continue reading Quora Answers: What Are The Long-Term Effects Of Narcissistic Abuse?

What’s It Like To Be The Child Of An INFJ?

Today my son told me that I’m weird. I was already aware of his opinion so it came as no surprise. I can’t say I disagree with him, either. I’ve always known I’m not like other people. The biggest reason for that is probably because of my MBTI Personality Type. I’m an INFJ, which is an acronym for Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling, Judging. It’s pretty rare and accounts for only about 1-2% of the population. My son is different too, but not for the same reason. Colton is fifteen. He’s also autistic with a genius I.Q. Ask him a question about … Continue reading What’s It Like To Be The Child Of An INFJ?