Quora Answers: Narcissistic Fathers

How Do I Move Forward With My Life Knowing That My Narcissist Ex Doesn’t Acknowledge Our Child? He Acts As If She Doesn’t Exist. As a parent, it’s hard to comprehend that someone wouldn’t acknowledge their own child. Or even seem to care that she exists. Narcissists are not like normal parents, though. They are not capable of feeling love or empathy. Not even for their own children. In actuality, the narcissist’s indifference to your child is the best thing for her. The worst thing would be to have him in her life. Let me tell you why. I have … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissistic Fathers

Quora Answers: The Sexually Deviant Narcissist

Is Sexually Deviant Behavior Common Among People With Strong Narcissistic Traits? Yes, sexually deviant behavior is very common among people with strong narcissistic traits. This is a topic that comes up regularly among my female friends who have been involved with narcissists. It’s actually hard to comprehend just how sexually deviant they really are. We all know about typical narcissistic behaviors like triangulation and serial cheating. But what most people don’t realize is the sheer depths of their depravity. I’m speaking from experience after being married to a Covert Narcissist for five years. A few years after our divorce, I … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Sexually Deviant Narcissist

Quora Answers: The Transitional Target

Could A Narcissist Idealize A New Target Without Actually Love-bombing Them? Love-bombing is just another term used to describe the idealization phase in a narcissistic relationship. All narcissistic relationships follow the same patterns and consist of three stages: idealization, devaluation, and discard. Many people are unaware that narcissists sometimes shorten these stages. Narcissists always have multiple sources for narcissistic supply. The primary source is usually a spouse or long-time boyfriend or girlfriend. Their main function is to give the narcissist regular attention and admiration. They are also the ones who receive the most brutal forms of narcissistic abuse. Then there … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Transitional Target

Quora Answers: Narcissists And Illicit Drugs

Has A Narcissist Ever Drugged You In Order To Use Your Fingerprint To Access Your Phone? My Malignant Narcissist ex-husband drugged me on many occasions. For many reasons. And always without my knowledge. One morning he cooked breakfast. Which wasn’t unusual. But he didn’t eat any of it. Which was very unusual. He just sat there and watched our son and me while we ate. Within a short time my eyes began to get heavy and I started to feel very dizzy. The same thing happened to my son. We both quickly fell into a deep sleep. And didn’t wake … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists And Illicit Drugs

Quora Answers: Pathological Liars

When Will A Narcissist Come Clean With You? After the 12th of Never. Do you want to know if a narcissist will ever admit he lied to you about something? They’ll admit to another lie before they will ever tell you the truth. You may hear a pretend confession or fake apology. But you won’t get the whole truth. You’ll get adamant denials of wrongdoing even if you catch him red-handed. Then he’ll accuse you of the very things he’s done or is doing. Narcissists are pathological liars. They are really good at believing their own bullshit. And thinking everyone … Continue reading Quora Answers: Pathological Liars

Quora Answers: Control–The Malignant Narcissist’s Weapon Of Choice

Is A Malignant Narcissist‘s Biggest Weapon Having Us Believe That We Have No Control? In my case it was. After years of physical, verbal, and emotional abuse, my Malignant Narcissist ex-husband wore me down to just a shell of my former self. By making me feel powerless to change my situation, and without any control over my circumstances, I became easier to abuse. The fear of not being able to stop him from abusing me drove me to always try to meet his ridiculous demands. No matter what I had to do to accomplish the impossible, I was willing to … Continue reading Quora Answers: Control–The Malignant Narcissist’s Weapon Of Choice

Quora Answers: Exposing The Narcissist

Have You Ever Publicly Exposed Your Narcissist For Who They Are? Yes. As a matter of fact, I expose my Malignant Narcissist ex-husband publicly on an almost daily basis. I started answering questions about narcissism on Quora. Gradually, I began to post my answers on social media. My narcissism posts started gaining in popularity, so I started my own blog. I don’t hold back about the evils of narcissists, either. I have told about my ex-husband’s sexual perversions, and written often about the physical, emotional, and financial abuse I suffered at his hands. I even posted his mug shot, name, … Continue reading Quora Answers: Exposing The Narcissist

Quora Answers: The Stigma Of Narcissistic Abuse

Why Does It Offend People When You Talk About Narcissistic Abuse? Probably because they don’t believe us. That’s the impression I got from people I used to try to tell. Those who haven’t been through it themselves can’t fathom what kind of atrocities victims have endured. That’s one of the reasons raising awareness of narcissistic abuse has been such an uphill battle for advocates and survivors. When I try to look at it objectively, I understand their positions to a certain extent. Hell, I lived it for years and I had trouble believing it. Most people have never faced true … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Stigma Of Narcissistic Abuse