Quora Answers: Attachment Disorder

How Can I Stop Feeling That I’m Somehow Different And The Narcissist Will Realize It? According To Him, He Thinks Of Me All The Time, Yet He Continues To Disappear. As painful as it is to accept, nobody is special to a narcissist. No matter how pretty, smart, charming, or intelligent you are, the ugly truth is that you’re no more special than the next source. Or the last one the narcissist said the same words to. It doesn’t matter what you do for them, how good you are in bed, or how much you have to offer. The narcissist … Continue reading Quora Answers: Attachment Disorder

Quora Answers: Covert Narcissists

Will A Covert Narcissist Hide Your Personal Things If Called Out On Their Behavior? They’ll not only hide your personal things, they’ll destroy them, sell them, or give them to one of their other sources of supply. In all honesty, you’ll be lucky to ever get anything back if the narcissist has taken it. You don’t even have to call them out on their behavior for them to take your personal things, most prized possessions, and belongings that hold sentimental value. If you think back throughout your relationship, you’ll probably recall items disappearing that you thought you misplaced. Before the … Continue reading Quora Answers: Covert Narcissists

Quora Answers: Narcissists And Domestic Violence

What Made You Finally Leave The Narcissist? Like most victims of domestic violence and narcissistic abuse, it took several escape attempts before I finally left my Malignant Narcissist husband for good. We had been together for 18 years. And I took my share of abuse throughout those years. I won’t go into the dynamics of why it took so long for me to leave permanently. But it definitely wasn’t because I enjoyed being abused. That is such a horrible thing for a victim to be accused of. Especially when it’s coming from people she cares about. As much as I … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists And Domestic Violence

Quora Answers: Narcissists And Stalking

What Makes A Narcissist Stalk A Victim For A Decade? Is This Normal? For a personality-disordered narcissist, it’s not unusual to stalk a victim for many years. But it definitely isn’t the behavior of a normal, rational human being. When a narcissist continues to stalk a victim for such a lengthy period of time, two motives come to mind. One probability is that the narc is still thoroughly enjoying the cat-and-mouse game he’s playing with the victim. By continuing to stalk her, in his mind, he’s continuing to control her. And as long as he is still able to reap … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists And Stalking

Quora Answers: The Sadistic Narcissist

Do Narcissists Really Enjoy Torturing Their Victims? Or Do They Just Not Care If They Do? Narcissists really enjoy torturing their victims. It’s not that they don’t care if they do. They actually want to. That’s the reason for the mind-fucking games like triangulation and sabotage. They set out to cause as much pain and confusion as possible. It makes them feel powerful. They think that if they hurt you, it means they are important. Narcissists are sadistic. Which is why they derive pleasure from your pain. What is important to understand is that the nice person they were in … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Sadistic Narcissist

Quora Answers: The Violent Narcissist

Do Narcissists Become Physically Abusive Over Time? It’s quite common for a narcissist to be physically abusive. While not all narcissists escalate beyond intimidation, those that do need to be taken very seriously. According to Christine Hammond, MS, LMHC, author of the bestselling book, “The Exhausted Woman’s Handbook,” a narcissistic physical abuser will not change. No matter what they say. Once there is physical abuse, it will always escalate until it reaches a point of extreme injury or death for the narcissist’s spouse. There are five types of physical abuse narcissists use on spouses. They are: 1.) Intimidation, 2.) Isolation, … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Violent Narcissist

Quora Answers: Narcissists And Hoovering

Why Does The Narcissist Want Me Back Now That I’ve Grown As A Person And Feel Better? Narcissists enjoy a challenge. Destroying your newfound happiness will be fun for him. That’s ultimately why narcissists hoover previous victims. Sucking you back into the cycle of abuse will prove that he still has power over you. I don’t know what the circumstances of your relationship with the narcissist happened to be. Or how it ended. But this could also be about revenge. If you left him, he’s definitely going to want to cause you as much pain this time around as possible. … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists And Hoovering

Quora Answers: Narcissists

Will A Narcissist Cry When You Had A Miscarriage? They will if they have an audience. A narcissist always wants to be the center of attention. And they use every opportunity possible to show people how loving and caring they are. But the minute nobody else is watching, they’ll attack you with the cruelest words you’ve ever heard. They’ll blame you for the miscarriage. And say things that feel like a bullet piercing your heart. The first narcissist I married was a Covert Somatic ass. When I was 7 1/2 months pregnant with our daughter, I had a placental abruption. … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists