As a younger INFJ, I would get a feeling in the pit of my stomach sometimes when I was with other people. A feeling that’s hard to describe. I knew that it made me feel uneasy all of a sudden. But I didn’t know why. As I matured and became self-aware, I learned to recognize that feeling as my INFJ Radar, telling me that someone is lying. And it is extremely accurate. I may not immediately know why someone is lying, although that will readily become apparent. But I know they’re being deceptive in some way. Whether I acknowledge that … Continue reading How Good Are INFJ’s At Spotting When Someone Is Lying?
How Do I Deal With An Angry INFJ Who Needs Space? If I’m angry and tell someone I need space, the worst thing that person can, do from my standpoint, is to invade that space. If left alone, I can think more clearly. It doesn’t usually take long for my anger to subside, provided I have the necessary time alone to process my thoughts. I really hate to be angry. So I try to resolve whatever issues have pissed me off as quickly as possible. But I have to be alone long enough to clear my mind. The longer I … Continue reading Quora Answers: INFJ Personality
Are INFJ’s Emotionally Expressive? Sometimes too much!! As I write this, I’m feeling guilty for going overboard with expressing negative emotions to my fiance. I was pissed off at the world, and at myself, but I took it out on him. I expressed things I now regret, and will probably be eating crow for a while. Fortunately, I’m not always like that. When I’m happy, I can be very loving and express my emotions in a positive way, which I much prefer. There are times, too, that I will completely disconnect from my emotions in order to see things from … Continue reading Quora Answers: INFJ Personality
What Do You Struggle With Most As An INFJ? The biggest thing I struggle with as an INFJ is my love/hate relationship with Introverted Intuition. Don’t get me wrong. I appreciate that my intuition gives me insights and knowledge most people can’t imagine. I’m grateful to be blessed with a unique perspective. And I’m not trying to look a gift horse in the mouth. But sometimes, Introverted Intuition can be a double-edged sword. Here’s an example. You’ve been friends with a guy since childhood. You haven’t seen him much over the years. But the friendship remained intact. After calling you … Continue reading Quora Answers: INFJ Problems
What Causes An INFJ To Have Sense Of Humor Failure? There are lots of things that can cause me to temporarily lose my sense of humor. But it always comes back relatively fast. Narcissistic Abuse, however, caused me to lose my sense of humor for a long time. So long that I completely forgot how to laugh. I wasn’t consciously aware that it had happened until after my marriage to a Malignant Narcissist ended. Even then, it was a few months after going No Contact before I realized I hadn’t laughed in quite a while. And that I really missed … Continue reading Quora Answers By Serena Prince
Are INFJ’s Able To Survive Narcissistic Abuse Or Are They More Apt To Be Forever Wounded? I’m an INFJ who survived narcissistic abuse. I personally think being an INFJ is one of the reasons I’ve been able to heal from … Continue reading Quora Answers: INFJ ‘s And Narcissistic Abuse