Money: A Narcissist’s True Love

Quora Answers: Did you find that your narcissistic ex was a hoarder of money? Did you feel like it could never be enough money for them? Oh yeah, my Malignant Narcissist ex-husband definitely was a hoarder of money. He stashed his own money, along with as much of mine as he could pilfer. And no, it was never enough. He so loved money that he was willing to kill me over it. In an eerily calm voice, he told me as much one morning. For two of the previous weeks, he’d been demanding almost $20,000 from me. That particular day … Continue reading Money: A Narcissist’s True Love

Quora Answers: The Malicious Narcissist

What Are Some Of The Most Calculated, Malicious Set-Ups You Endured While With A Narcissist? There are two especially diabolical set ups that stand out for me. One was intended to kill me. The other was meant to put me in prison for solicitation of capital murder. Both were terrifying. I know now that my ex-husband is a Malignant Narcissist, who was very skilled at gaslighting and mind-fuckery. Toward the end of our marriage, I just thought he was crazy. I had also started to think my own sanity was questionable. One morning after a nasty argument, the narc stormed … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Malicious Narcissist

How Evil And Vengeful Is A Covert Malignant Narcissist To Their Victim?

Quora Answers: Why Do They Seem So Innocent And Charming To Everyone Else? They’re the equivalent of Satan in human form, if that tells you anything. They gleefully create a living hell for their victims. The false innocence and charm … Continue reading How Evil And Vengeful Is A Covert Malignant Narcissist To Their Victim?

Do Narcissists Plan Their Vile Attacks On People?

Yes, they do. That was one of the hardest things for me to comprehend when I began my journey to healing from Narcissistic Abuse. I’ve had plenty of experience with Narcissists throughout my life, both Overt & Covert. And I … Continue reading Do Narcissists Plan Their Vile Attacks On People?

Quora Answers: The Stalking Narcissist

Why Does My Malignant Narcissist Ex Still Stalk Me After I Dumped Him First? Because you dumped him first. Since life is a game to narcissists, everything is about winning and losing. More specifically, they must always be winning, while everyone else is losing. Narcissists go into relationships with the primary goal of discarding their partners first. They know from the beginning that the relationship won’t last. They intend to discard their partners in the most painful way possible. It’s a reward for all their efforts during the lovebombing stage. Discarding you means victory. His victory. His time to shine. … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Stalking Narcissist

Quora Answers: Narcissists And Serial Infidelity

Is Infidelity A Given When It Comes To A Narcissist? If So, Why? When it comes to a narcissist, infidelity is a given. It is a fact of life that narcissists are serial cheaters. If you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, this is a painful concept to grasp. But denial won’t make it less true. One of the reasons Narcissists cheat is because of their unquenchable thirst for Narcissistic Supply. They have multiple sources in order to keep a steady flow of adoration, attention, and praise. Narcissists aren’t hindered by morals or values, and see nothing wrong with their … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists And Serial Infidelity

Quora Answers: Psychopath, Sociopath, Or Malignant Narcissist?

Where Is The Line Between A Malignant Narcissist & A Sociopath? Are Sociopaths More Likely To Commit Murder And More Intense Things? Or Is A Malignant Narc Just As Intense? In my opinion, and from my experience as the wife of a Malignant Narcissist, they’re one and the same. Each is just as likely as the other to commit murder. Neither has a conscience or the ability to feel empathy. Neither has morals or ethics that prohibit them from the most heinous of sins. Throw in the term “psychopath” and you have a fitting description of my ex-husband. He tried … Continue reading Quora Answers: Psychopath, Sociopath, Or Malignant Narcissist?

QuoraAnswers: The Nurtured Narcissist

Can One Develop NPD Because Of A Spoiled Upbringing? Never Having To Take Responsibility, Never Criticized, Told They Were Special And Better Than Others? Never Challenged Or Disciplined? Most definitely. Your question describes my ex-husband’s upbringing perfectly, and he’s a … Continue reading QuoraAnswers: The Nurtured Narcissist