Do Narcissists Plan Their Vile Attacks On People?

Yes, they do. That was one of the hardest things for me to comprehend when I began my journey to healing from Narcissistic Abuse. I’ve had plenty of experience with Narcissists throughout my life, both Overt & Covert. And I … Continue reading Do Narcissists Plan Their Vile Attacks On People?

Quora Answers: The Stalking Narcissist

Why Does My Malignant Narcissist Ex Still Stalk Me After I Dumped Him First? Because you dumped him first. Since life is a game to narcissists, everything is about winning and losing. More specifically, they must always be winning, while everyone else is losing. Narcissists go into relationships with the primary goal of discarding their partners first. They know from the beginning that the relationship won’t last. They intend to discard their partners in the most painful way possible. It’s a reward for all their efforts during the lovebombing stage. Discarding you means victory. His victory. His time to shine. … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Stalking Narcissist

Quora Answers: Narcissists And Serial Infidelity

Is Infidelity A Given When It Comes To A Narcissist? If So, Why? When it comes to a narcissist, infidelity is a given. It is a fact of life that narcissists are serial cheaters. If you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, this is a painful concept to grasp. But denial won’t make it less true. One of the reasons Narcissists cheat is because of their unquenchable thirst for Narcissistic Supply. They have multiple sources in order to keep a steady flow of adoration, attention, and praise. Narcissists aren’t hindered by morals or values, and see nothing wrong with their … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists And Serial Infidelity

Quora Answers: Psychopath, Sociopath, Or Malignant Narcissist?

Where Is The Line Between A Malignant Narcissist & A Sociopath? Are Sociopaths More Likely To Commit Murder And More Intense Things? Or Is A Malignant Narc Just As Intense? In my opinion, and from my experience as the wife of a Malignant Narcissist, they’re one and the same. Each is just as likely as the other to commit murder. Neither has a conscience or the ability to feel empathy. Neither has morals or ethics that prohibit them from the most heinous of sins. Throw in the term “psychopath” and you have a fitting description of my ex-husband. He tried … Continue reading Quora Answers: Psychopath, Sociopath, Or Malignant Narcissist?

QuoraAnswers: The Nurtured Narcissist

Can One Develop NPD Because Of A Spoiled Upbringing? Never Having To Take Responsibility, Never Criticized, Told They Were Special And Better Than Others? Never Challenged Or Disciplined? Most definitely. Your question describes my ex-husband’s upbringing perfectly, and he’s a … Continue reading QuoraAnswers: The Nurtured Narcissist

Quora Answers: The Malignant Narcissist And Cluster-B Disorders

Are Malignant Narcissists Considered To Be Neurotypicals? Oh Lord, no. No. No. Definitely not!! There’s nothing neurotypical about a Malignant Narcissist. A neurotypical is someone who doesn’t have Narcissistic Personality Disorder. To be more precise, it’s someone who doesn’t display any atypical neurological patterns of thought or behavior. A Malignant Narcissist is the absolute worst type of creature you can imagine. The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, or DSM, doesn’t recognize it as a formal disorder. But anybody who has met one will tell you to avoid them at all costs. In my non-clinical opinion, they’re the most … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Malignant Narcissist And Cluster-B Disorders

Quora Answers: The Narcissist’s Wife And Spite

Two Months After Surgery. Notice The Scar On My Neck. Did You Cheat On Your Narcissist? Yes, I did. Before I go any further, let me say that I’m not proud of it. Not because of anything having to do with him. But because I believe it’s wrong. Despite having had an awful marriage, and being divorced, I still believe in the institution of marriage. I don’t think it’s right to be unfaithful to one’s spouse. With that said, I’ll tell you why I cheated on him. I’m not justifying my actions. But simply telling you my mindset at the … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Narcissist’s Wife And Spite

Quora Answers: The Slighted Narcissist

What Seemingly Immediately Happened When Due To A Perceived Slight, A Narcissist Became Angry At His Relationship Partner? What happened to me when my Malignant Narcissist ex-husband felt slighted ranged from total degradation to extreme physical violence. Whether the perceived … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Slighted Narcissist