Why Narcissists Discard You but Call to Profess Their Love

After narcissists discard a victim, they frequently return, professing their love. It’s called hoovering, and it’s all about control. They want to suck you back into the cycle of abuse and prove they still have power over you. Most people don’t know their partner was a narcissist the first time they’re discarded. You know something

How Narcissists Make You Doubt Your Sanity

Narcissists Want To Make You Feel Crazy. Narcissists do some pretty insane things to make you doubt your sanity. They want to be the one to push you off the edge, so they try to destabilize you by altering your reality. It’s a way to pass their own negative feelings on to you. For people

Ugly Reasons I Cheated On My Narcissist Husband

So, why did I cheat on my Narcissist husband? While I’m not proud of it, I’m not exactly ashamed of it, either. Justified or not, the narc gave me plenty of reasons to want payback. For nine agonizing months, I waited for a neurosurgeon.. I needed a complicated procedure that was relatively new. It was

A Positive Approach To Being Discarded

What Are The Advantages Of Being Discarded By A Narcissist? 1. You get to decide whether you want to watch TV or not. And watch what you want to watch. 2. You get to read in bed without having the Narcissist pawing all over you. 3. You get to decide what clothes to wear. 4.

The Indelible Mark Of A Victim

The Indelible Mark That Screams Victim When I began my journey to healing, I wore the indelible mark of a former victim of Narcissistic Abuse. Everything about me seemed to shout that I was a broken human being.  It’s not exactly a badge of honor, but it’s not something survivors should be ashamed of, either.