Processing Pain Is Necessary In Order To Heal From Narcissistic Abuse

Quora Answers: May I Ask Your Advice? I’m Having A Really Bad Time After Being Discarded By My Narcissist Ex, And I Just Now Realized He’s A Narcissist. First and foremost, have mercy on yourself. Understand that you are not to blame for being conned by a narcissist. So many people who have never been entwined in a narcissist’s web of lies falsely believe that it wouldn’t happen to them. They are dead wrong. It can happen to anybody. Prepare yourself mentally for pain. Think about what you’re going to go through on your path to recovery in the same … Continue reading Processing Pain Is Necessary In Order To Heal From Narcissistic Abuse

Quora Answers: The Aging Narcissist

Does A Narcissist’s Behavior Get Worse With Age? The narcissists I’ve known certainly got worse with age. Much worse. I’ve read reports from psychologists who claim the opposite to be true. Their opinions are that narcissists mellow with age. I disagree wholeheartedly. When a person with NPD begins to age, their human bodies may slow them down. Inside their devious minds, however, they don’t mellow. If anything, they become more bitter and miserable. My Malignant Narc ex-husband is a perfect example of going from bad to worse with age. Over the years, he became more and more abusive and downright … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Aging Narcissist

“Dating Harley Quinn” Is A Must-Read For Victims Of Narcissistic Abuse

My good friend, Lee Miller, is a fellow Quora Author and Survivor of Narcissistic Abuse who has written a book that every victim needs to read. There’s no part about Dating Harley Quinn that I don’t recommend. After finding himself on the brink of suicide following his relationship with a female narcissist, Lee managed to claw his way back from hell. His wisdom and insights are priceless for those in similar situations. I know. I’m speaking from firsthand experience. On many occasions, Lee guided me back from the depths of despair when I was lost with no direction. I can … Continue reading “Dating Harley Quinn” Is A Must-Read For Victims Of Narcissistic Abuse

Quora Answers: The Grandiose Narcissist

Do Grandiose Narcissists Often Repeat The Same Speech About How Great They Are Over And Over? Oh my Lord, yes!! Not only do they repeat the same stories over and over, they expect you to listen attentively while they’re repeating them. Plus you’re supposed to be adequately impressed each and every time. You’re not allowed to point out that you’ve heard that shit 5,238 times already. And if you have to hear it again, you’ll pull all of your hair out. After eighteen years of hearing my narc ex-husband’s crap, I began to clench my jaw. It was the only … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Grandiose Narcissist

Quora Answers: More Lies A Narcissist Husband Tells His Wife

Why Would A Narcissist Not Leave Marriage Due To Having Young Children And Claiming He Can’t Leave Because They Are Finally Old Enough For Him To Connect Emotionally And Be Able To Have Conversations? For several reasons. And none of them are good. First of all, a narcissist can cause chaos and drama for you and the children much easier if he’s still in the home. It’s also more convenient for him to create parental alienation with full access to the entire family. Another reason he doesn’t want to leave is because the marriage benefits him in ways he’s not … Continue reading Quora Answers: More Lies A Narcissist Husband Tells His Wife

QuoraAnswers: The Nurtured Narcissist

Can One Develop NPD Because Of A Spoiled Upbringing? Never Having To Take Responsibility, Never Criticized, Told They Were Special And Better Than Others? Never Challenged Or Disciplined? Most definitely. Your question describes my ex-husband’s upbringing perfectly, and he’s a … Continue reading QuoraAnswers: The Nurtured Narcissist

Quora Answers: Recognizing Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Do You Find It Relatively Easy To Spot People With NPD? I wish I could say I can easily identify anyone with even a mild case of NPD from a mile away. For the most part, my intuition is extremely … Continue reading Quora Answers: Recognizing Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Quora Answers: The Malignant Narcissist And Cluster-B Disorders

Are Malignant Narcissists Considered To Be Neurotypicals? Oh Lord, no. No. No. Definitely not!! There’s nothing neurotypical about a Malignant Narcissist. A neurotypical is someone who doesn’t have Narcissistic Personality Disorder. To be more precise, it’s someone who doesn’t display any atypical neurological patterns of thought or behavior. A Malignant Narcissist is the absolute worst type of creature you can imagine. The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, or DSM, doesn’t recognize it as a formal disorder. But anybody who has met one will tell you to avoid them at all costs. In my non-clinical opinion, they’re the most … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Malignant Narcissist And Cluster-B Disorders