Quora Answers: Narcissists, Holidays, And Covert Sabotage

Why Do Narcissistic Mates Set Out To Destroy Holidays And Birthdays? My BD Is Tomorrow And My Narc Started An Argument Yesterday So He Can Give Me The Silent Treatment On My Birthday. It’s a form of covert sabotage. His goal is to ruin your happiness and keep the attention on himself. Narcissists are very jealous. For example, you have to attend a work event because you’re getting an award. The narcissist may hide your car keys, or “accidentally” spill a drink on your thank-you speech. Anything to wreak havoc on your joy. If you’re looking forward to seeing your … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists, Holidays, And Covert Sabotage

Quora Answers: Narcissists And Covert Abuse

Might A Narcissist Secretly Inflict Physical Harm On A Victim? Hell yes, they will. But you’ll probably never be able to prove it. With that said, I’ll give you a few examples of how my Malignant Narcissist ex-husband secretly inflicted physical harm on me. He gave me a glass of Kool-Aid laced with enough meth to kill two adult men. I ended up in Intensive Care, and came very close to dying. I found out later that he told the doctors I’d intentionally overdosed. Since I was unconscious at the time, I couldn’t dispute his lies. When I regained consciousness, … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists And Covert Abuse

Quora Answers: The Cheating Narcissist

I’ve Had This Sick Feeling In My Gut That My Covert Narcissist Husband Is Cheating On Me With A Good Friend. Can’t Find Proof. Could My Intuition Be Wrong Because Of The Years Of Emotional Abuse? I wish I could say you’re just being paranoid and should give him the benefit of the doubt, but that wouldn’t be realistic. Your gut is telling you what your heart doesn’t want to accept. The emotional abuse you’ve endured isn’t causing your intuition to be erroneous. It does appear to be causing you to have cognitive dissonance, though. Deep down, you know he’s … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Cheating Narcissist

Quora Answers: Are Overt Narcissists Easier To Get Along With?

My experiences proved covert narcissists to actually be easier to get along with. At face value, anyway. Not that an overt narcissist is always harder. Sometimes they’re downright jovial and funny. They can appear to be very easy to get along with. As long as they’re the center of attention. If you listen to their stories, laugh at their jokes, and remain a captive audience, overt narcissists can seem to be perfectly agreeable and easygoing. It’s when you get tired of hearing their stories, or grow bored with their jokes, that things change. When you attempt to remove yourself, they … Continue reading Quora Answers: Are Overt Narcissists Easier To Get Along With?

Quora Answers: Three Narcissists Who Had To Face The Music

Do Narcissists’ Lies And Betrayals Eventually Catch Up To Them? If So, What Happens When That Time Comes? I know it seems like narcissists get away with their lies and betrayals without ever facing consequences. And for a long time, they do. Eventually though, it will catch up to them. I’ll tell you about the three narcs who were the most destructive to my life. And where they are now. I’ll start with my Malignant Narcissist ex-husband. After spending several months in jail for cracking my skull and injuring our son’s toe, he was homeless and jobless. His friends refused … Continue reading Quora Answers: Three Narcissists Who Had To Face The Music

Quora Answers: Explanation Of Covert, Overt, And Malignant Narcissists

Why Not Covert & Overt Narcissists? Why Covert & Malignant Instead? What’s The Difference Between Overt & Malignant? The terms “covert” and “overt” are describe the type of behavior patterns and narcissistic tendencies that someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) displays to the world. Covert behaviors mean the affected person hides their narcissistic tendencies. Their actions are introverted, or closeted. They actively sabotage the lives of others. But they do it undercover. This makes it harder to identify whether or not they’re a narcissist. It also enables them to abuse people indiscriminately. But generally without ever coming under suspicion. Like … Continue reading Quora Answers: Explanation Of Covert, Overt, And Malignant Narcissists

Quora Answers: Coping After Narcissistic Abuse

How Do You Deal With Your Anger And Rage At Your Narcissist Ex For All The Destruction And Heartache He Caused. (1-Year Post Separation & No Contact)? With as many creative, and ever-evolving, coping mechanisms as my frustrated brain can come up with. What works splendidly one day may not do shit the next time I need it. There’s really no way to know in advance what will bring me comfort. And what will just piss me off even more. Recovering from Narcissistic Abuse is a fickle process. Half the time that I find myself in a pit of despair, … Continue reading Quora Answers: Coping After Narcissistic Abuse

Quora Answers: Covert Narcissists And Religion

Does A Covert Narcissist Hide Behind Religion? If So, Does He Know What He’s Doing? A covert narcissist will definitely hide behind religion. And he definitely knows what he’s doing. One of the reasons it can be so hard to identify a covert narcissist is because they often portray themselves to be very pious individuals. They attend church regularly. Some teach Sunday School. Some are deacons. They quote Bible verses as well as any preacher. And pretend to be of high moral character. Then they go home and devalue their spouse and terrorize their children. #serenaprince375 #saudiprince #bestpartner4ever❤️ Originally Answered … Continue reading Quora Answers: Covert Narcissists And Religion