Quora Answers: Narcissists And Jealousy

Do Narcissists Get Jealous Of Others’ Success? Narcissists are absolutely jealous of others’ success. That’s why they go to such great lengths to sabotage the lives of anyone they deem to be more successful than themselves. Whether it’s their spouse, co-worker, friend, or own children, a narcissist despises happiness in others. They can’t be happy themselves. And they certainly don’t want anyone else to be. My Malignant Narc ex-husband resented me for my successes and achievements. And also for any talent or capabilities I had that he didn’t. He couldn’t stand the fact that I excel at speed-reading. He would … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists And Jealousy

Quora Answers: INFJ Problems

What Do You Struggle With Most As An INFJ? The biggest thing I struggle with as an INFJ is my love/hate relationship with Introverted Intuition. Don’t get me wrong. I appreciate that my intuition gives me insights and knowledge most people can’t imagine. I’m grateful to be blessed with a unique perspective. And I’m not trying to look a gift horse in the mouth. But sometimes, Introverted Intuition can be a double-edged sword. Here’s an example. You’ve been friends with a guy since childhood. You haven’t seen him much over the years. But the friendship remained intact. After calling you … Continue reading Quora Answers: INFJ Problems

Quora Answers: Narcissism

How Long Will It Be Before A Narcissist Tries To Get You Back In Their Lives? There’s no formula that can prove definitively when, or if, a narcissist will try to get someone back in their lives. Despite not having certain human emotions, narcissists are still human beings. With different preferences and objectives. People are unpredictable, and every situation is different. Generally speaking, if a narcissist has discarded you, and believes there is no further financial or monetary gain to be had, it’s quite possible that he’ll never return. It’s also possible that the narc will get bored with his … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissism

Quora Answers: Narcissism

Does A Narcissist Purposely Phrase Things Ambiguously To Keep You In The Dark? Yes, it’s called word salad. It’s all part of the crazy-making Narcissists heap on their victims. The mind-fuckery. Narcissists want you to feel crazy so when they discard you, it was all your fault for being a lunatic. The smear campaign will have already been underway for a while. They do it because they would rather lie than tell the truth. Even if the truth would be better for you. Especially if the truth would be better for you. All Narcissists are pathological liars. And your attention … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissism

Quora Answers: Malignant Narcissist

What Is Going Through The Mind Of A Narcissist When In Full Meltdown Rage? During my 18-year marriage to a Malignant Narcissist, I was the target of that terrifying rage on more than one occasion. My ex had what I know now to be Rages-On-Demand when it suited him. That was scary enough. But the True Rage? The rage that makes a narcissist not think about consequences? That was like facing off with Satan. What was going through the mind of the narcissist? ” I’m going to fucking kill that bitch!! That stupid cunt thinks it’s okay to disrespect Me!! … Continue reading Quora Answers: Malignant Narcissist

Quora Answers: Marriage To A Narcissist

What Makes A Narcissist Decide Who To Marry But Still Cheats On The Same Recycled Supply? Whoever a narcissist can benefit from the most on a long-term basis is the one he’ll choose to marry. Whether it’s financial gain, social status, or any number of monetary assets, the narcissist’s intent is to make it his own. Marriage simply makes it easier for him to attain. I can assure you with almost 100% certainty that he’ll cheat on his spouse too. Marriage won’t make him change his sex partners. Or his deviant sexual behavior. At the beginning of the marriage, he’ll … Continue reading Quora Answers: Marriage To A Narcissist

Quora Answers: No Contact

Is Your Narcissist Still Seeking Your Supply Or Causing You Problems? Was “No Contact ” Effective In Your Situation? When I finally escaped from my 18-year marriage to a Malignant Narcissist, there was one strategy written in stone. I was to have absolutely no contact or communication with him, period. First and foremost, I had to consider the safety of my son and myself. My husband was horribly abusive in every possible way. I was under no illusions about his propensity for causing physical injury. I also knew that I was an emotional wreck at the time, as was my … Continue reading Quora Answers: No Contact

Quora Answers: The Dangers Of A Narcissistic Parent

How Can You Escape A Narcissistic Relationship When You Share A Child? While it is possible to escape a narcissistic relationship when you share a child, it most definitely is not easy. I’m speaking from experience. I married two different narcissists, and have a son with each. I’ll give you some background information first. Please bear with me because I want you to fully understand why escaping the narcissist is so important for your child’s sake. My first husband was a Covert Narcissist. When we divorced, a very long and nasty custody battle ensued. Not because my ex wanted our … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Dangers Of A Narcissistic Parent