Quora Answers: Why Do Narcissists Introduce Your Children To Their New Pursuits So Quickly? What Is The Motivation For Them Behind This? Narcissists are always motivated to create drama and chaos with the intention of causing you as much misery as possible. How better to do it than through your children? Ultimately, they want to subject you to the misery of parental alienation. They may tell the kids you don’t love them anymore or that you wish they had never been born. They’ll tell despicable lies as examples of your bad behavior. They’ll encourage resentment, doubts, and negative thinking in … Continue reading Narcissists And Parental Alienation
Why Would A Narcissist Not Leave Marriage Due To Having Young Children And Claiming He Can’t Leave Because They Are Finally Old Enough For Him To Connect Emotionally And Be Able To Have Conversations? For several reasons. And none of them are good. First of all, a narcissist can cause chaos and drama for you and the children much easier if he’s still in the home. It’s also more convenient for him to create parental alienation with full access to the entire family. Another reason he doesn’t want to leave is because the marriage benefits him in ways he’s not … Continue reading Quora Answers: More Lies A Narcissist Husband Tells His Wife
Does A Narcissist Parent Disappear When Their Children Recognize Their Lies? My Malignant Narcissist ex-husband did. And when he tried to come back months later, he attempted to hoover both our son and me. To say it didn’t work is a bit of an understatement. Colton is autistic. He doesn’t have a filter that prevents him from saying exactly what he thinks. So in no uncertain terms, he let his father know he was aware of his bullshit. And that he wasn’t going to be fooled again, It would’ve been funny if it hadn’t been so scary. As is typical … Continue reading Quora Answers: Are Children Disposable To Narcissists?
My Narcissist Ex Got Me Pregnant On Purpose Without My Permission So He Could Have More Control Over Me. Is That Legal? Can I Use That In Court? In the United States, where I live, it’s perfectly legal for a man to impregnate an adult woman through consensual sex. When you say he got you pregnant without your permission, do you mean he raped you? Narcissists are well known for using pregnancies as a way to gain more control over their partners. Both male and female narcissists are guilty of this. Inevitably, the child will become a pawn that the … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists And Pregnancies As A Tool To Control
How Do I Move Forward With My Life Knowing That My Narcissist Ex Doesn’t Acknowledge Our Child? He Acts As If She Doesn’t Exist. As a parent, it’s hard to comprehend that someone wouldn’t acknowledge their own child. Or even seem to care that she exists. Narcissists are not like normal parents, though. They are not capable of feeling love or empathy. Not even for their own children. In actuality, the narcissist’s indifference to your child is the best thing for her. The worst thing would be to have him in her life. Let me tell you why. I have … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissistic Fathers
Why Does The Covert Narcissistic Parent Allow The Golden Child To Abuse His Siblings? Because he’s grooming the golden child to be just like himself. Narcissists think they’re superior to everyone else. He thinks he’s doing the child a favor by teaching him to abuse and exploit others. My ex-husband, a Malignant Narc, used to encourage our son to be abusive to me. He would tell him that stupid people like me needed to be hit to make us act right. He also encouraged him to abuse my dog. He said the dog and I were on the same level … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Narcissist And The Golden Child
How Can You Escape A Narcissistic Relationship When You Share A Child? While it is possible to escape a narcissistic relationship when you share a child, it most definitely is not easy. I’m speaking from experience. I married two different narcissists, and have a son with each. I’ll give you some background information first. Please bear with me because I want you to fully understand why escaping the narcissist is so important for your child’s sake. My first husband was a Covert Narcissist. When we divorced, a very long and nasty custody battle ensued. Not because my ex wanted our … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Dangers Of A Narcissistic Parent