Quora Answers: No Contact

What Is The Best Method To Deal With An Abusive Narcissistic Ex Who Won’t Let Go And Is Making Credible Threats? i.e. “I’ll destroy you,” “I’ll hurt your new boyfriend,” “I’ll bankrupt you.” No Contact is pretty much your only choice. And I don’t mean simply ending all communication with the narcissist. Though that’s definitely got to happen. I’m talking about moving somewhere that he can’t find you. Blocking him on social media, getting a private phone number. And changing people, places, and things, to name a few. Also, make sure you don’t let hin know about your plans in … Continue reading Quora Answers: No Contact

Quora Answers: Narcissists

What Is The Narcissist Telling His Other Person(s) About The Woman He’s Living With? He’s telling her that his primary partner is crazy. And obsessed with him. He’s also telling her that she cheated on him mercilessly. And probably that she’s on drugs, is a bad mother, and an overall horrible person. A narcissist tells new sources of supply the worst possible things about his primary partner in order to achieve a couple of goals. For one thing, it gives him a chance to play the victim, one of his favorite pastimes. Another reason is to choreograph the behavior of … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists

Quora Answers: Narcissists

Will A Narcissist Ever Change? I’m assuming the question is referring to the possibility that a narcissist may change for the better. In my experience, the answer is no. Narcissists don’t change for the better. Ever. I have read that a narcissist can change. But I’ve never actually seen it happen. For the sake of accuracy, I should point out that psychologists say a narcissist can change. Under certain circumstances. It’s a rare thing, though . Very rare. But . . . . . if a narcissist becomes self-aware, Actively seeks help because he wants to change, And then spends … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists

Quora Answers: INFJ Personality

Are INFJ’s Emotionally Expressive? Sometimes too much!! As I write this, I’m feeling guilty for going overboard with expressing negative emotions to my fiance. I was pissed off at the world, and at myself, but I took it out on him. I expressed things I now regret, and will probably be eating crow for a while. Fortunately, I’m not always like that. When I’m happy, I can be very loving and express my emotions in a positive way, which I much prefer. There are times, too, that I will completely disconnect from my emotions in order to see things from … Continue reading Quora Answers: INFJ Personality

Quora Answers: Narcissists And Jealousy

Do Narcissists Get Jealous Of Others’ Success? Narcissists are absolutely jealous of others’ success. That’s why they go to such great lengths to sabotage the lives of anyone they deem to be more successful than themselves. Whether it’s their spouse, co-worker, friend, or own children, a narcissist despises happiness in others. They can’t be happy themselves. And they certainly don’t want anyone else to be. My Malignant Narc ex-husband resented me for my successes and achievements. And also for any talent or capabilities I had that he didn’t. He couldn’t stand the fact that I excel at speed-reading. He would … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists And Jealousy

Quora Answers: INFJ Problems

What Do You Struggle With Most As An INFJ? The biggest thing I struggle with as an INFJ is my love/hate relationship with Introverted Intuition. Don’t get me wrong. I appreciate that my intuition gives me insights and knowledge most people can’t imagine. I’m grateful to be blessed with a unique perspective. And I’m not trying to look a gift horse in the mouth. But sometimes, Introverted Intuition can be a double-edged sword. Here’s an example. You’ve been friends with a guy since childhood. You haven’t seen him much over the years. But the friendship remained intact. After calling you … Continue reading Quora Answers: INFJ Problems

Quora Answers: Narcissism

How Long Will It Be Before A Narcissist Tries To Get You Back In Their Lives? There’s no formula that can prove definitively when, or if, a narcissist will try to get someone back in their lives. Despite not having certain human emotions, narcissists are still human beings. With different preferences and objectives. People are unpredictable, and every situation is different. Generally speaking, if a narcissist has discarded you, and believes there is no further financial or monetary gain to be had, it’s quite possible that he’ll never return. It’s also possible that the narc will get bored with his … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissism

Quora Answers: Narcissism

Does A Narcissist Purposely Phrase Things Ambiguously To Keep You In The Dark? Yes, it’s called word salad. It’s all part of the crazy-making Narcissists heap on their victims. The mind-fuckery. Narcissists want you to feel crazy so when they discard you, it was all your fault for being a lunatic. The smear campaign will have already been underway for a while. They do it because they would rather lie than tell the truth. Even if the truth would be better for you. Especially if the truth would be better for you. All Narcissists are pathological liars. And your attention … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissism