Quora Answers: Narcissists

Will A Narcissist Cry When You Had A Miscarriage? They will if they have an audience. A narcissist always wants to be the center of attention. And they use every opportunity possible to show people how loving and caring they are. But the minute nobody else is watching, they’ll attack you with the cruelest words you’ve ever heard. They’ll blame you for the miscarriage. And say things that feel like a bullet piercing your heart. The first narcissist I married was a Covert Somatic ass. When I was 7 1/2 months pregnant with our daughter, I had a placental abruption. … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists

Quora Answers: Narcissistic Behaviors

   Why Do Narcissists Constantly Talk About Their Exes? The reason a narcissist constantly talks about their exes is because they are choreographing your present and future behavior. A narcissist conditions his sources in various ways by using his or her ex as an example of what not to do. They use indirect persuasion by seeming to flatter their target with words like: “My ex used to get so jealous of my guy friends. I’m so glad you aren’t like that.” “My ex didn’t like for me to go anywhere with my friends, not even hunting. But you know how … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissistic Behaviors

Quora Answers: The Aftermath Of Narcissistic Abuse

Is It Normal To Feel Like You Were Used And Violated After Coming Off A Long Relationship With A Narcissist? It’s very normal to feel like you were used and violated after coming off a long relationship with a narcissist. Because you were, in fact, used and violated. It started at the beginning and continued throughout the relationship. Given another chance, the narcissist will do it to you again. The reason narcissists get into long relationships is to have a regular source of supply to use, exploit, violate, and ultimately try to destroy. The violations during the lovebombing stage don’t … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Aftermath Of Narcissistic Abuse

Quora Answers: Narcissistic Relationships

Why Did I Ignore The Signs That He Was A Narcissist And Get Into A Relationship With Him Anyway? Most likely, for the same reason I did. You probably had no idea what kind of hell was in store for you. How could you have known? Normal people simply don’t think about choosing a victim to fuck over in every possible way. It would have been inconceivable to you in the beginning that the person who mirrored your best traits was actually the devil in disguise. In hindsight, I can recall warning signs that I ignored. But I used to … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissistic Relationships

Quora Answers: Devaluation

Does A Narcissist Enjoy When They Start To Devalue A Partner Because It Makes Them Feel Less Vulnerable? Absolutely. A narcissist definitely enjoys devaluing their partner. Whether it’s because it makes them feel less vulnerable or simply because they’re sadistic assholes depends on their mood at the time, I suppose. They had to work during the lovebombing stage. The devaluation is when they get to have fun. Almost everything a narcissist does is to make them feel less vulnerable. It’s ingrained in their subconscious. It’s why they lie about who they are, how they truly feel, and everything else that … Continue reading Quora Answers: Devaluation

Quora Answers: Explanation Of Narcissism Phrases

What Do The Terms “Hoovering,” “Flying Monkeys,” Etc. Mean When Talking About Narcissistic Behaviors? “Hoovering” refers to the narcissist’s ability to suck the victim back into the abusive relationship after being previously discarded. It’s so named after the Hoover vacuum cleaner. A “flying monkey” is someone who serves as a proxy for the narcissist. In order to abuse the victim on his behalf. In “The Wizard Of Oz” the flying monkeys were used by The Wicked Witch to abuse Dorothy. “Mind-fuckery” is exactly what it sounds like. But it’s not always easy to recognize. For example, you have questions. And … Continue reading Quora Answers: Explanation Of Narcissism Phrases

Quora Answers: Autism Spectrum Disorder

Do Children With Autism Really Live In Their Own World? My son certainly lives in his own world. He is co-morbid, meaning he was diagnosed with more than one disorder. He has Asperger’s, bipolar disorder, Oppositional Defiant Disorder, a sleeping disorder, and an anxiety disorder. He was also recently diagnosed with Complex-PTSD from Narcissistic Abuse, thanks to his father, my Malignant Narc ex-husband. His world is unique to him, of course. He just turned 14, but remains emotionally immature, like that of a much younger child. In some ways, though, he seems to have a very old soul. He’s also … Continue reading Quora Answers: Autism Spectrum Disorder

Quora Answers: Narcissistic Behaviors

Why Do Narcissists Call And Say I Love You After They Discarded You? After a Narcissist has discarded you, they will often call you or stop by for a visit with one goal in mind. They want to suck you back into the nightmare of abuse. Because it’s fun for them. Narcissists become bored very quickly. So they seek entertainment for themselves at their victims’ expense. By stringing you along with words of love and affection, they can tease you with hopes of reconciliation. They will make you think that not only do they now realize how much you meant … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissistic Behaviors