Quora Answers: Did you find that your narcissistic ex was a hoarder of money? Did you feel like it could never be enough money for them? Oh yeah, my Malignant Narcissist ex-husband definitely was a hoarder of money. He stashed his own money, along with as much of mine as he could pilfer. And no, it was never enough. He so loved money that he was willing to kill me over it. In an eerily calm voice, he told me as much one morning. For two of the previous weeks, he’d been demanding almost $20,000 from me. That particular day … Continue reading Money: A Narcissist’s True Love
Is It Possible For A Narcissist Not To Cheat In 35 Years? I Never Caught Him But He Discarded Me When I Had Cancer. It’s Over. I Exposed Him As A Narcissist And We’re Divorcing. Why Does He Continue To Deny Cheating? Anything is possible, but it’s highly unlikely that he never cheated. You say it’s over, and for your sake, I really hope you mean it. Your narcissist husband, on the other hand, may have other plans. He’s probably planning a hoover attempt sooner or later. It’ll be a challenge for him to suck you back in so he’ll … Continue reading Quora Answers: Can A Narcissist Be Faithful?
Why Does A Narcissist Always Start Arguments Over Little Things? Narcissists intentionally start arguments in order to provoke an emotional reaction from you. When the inevitable boredom sets in, they lure you into circular conversations to entertain themselves. Picking a … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Argumentative Narcissist
What Are Some Of The Most Calculated, Malicious Set-Ups You Endured While With A Narcissist? There are two especially diabolical set ups that stand out for me. One was intended to kill me. The other was meant to put me in prison for solicitation of capital murder. Both were terrifying. I know now that my ex-husband is a Malignant Narcissist, who was very skilled at gaslighting and mind-fuckery. Toward the end of our marriage, I just thought he was crazy. I had also started to think my own sanity was questionable. One morning after a nasty argument, the narc stormed … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Malicious Narcissist
Why Did I Stay Knowing She Was A Narcissist? Most likely, for the same reason I did. Because the benefit of being in love was worth the risk that your instincts were wrong. In the beginning, you had no idea what kind of hell was in store for you. How could you have known? Normal people simply don’t think about choosing a victim to fuck over in every possible way. It would have been inconceivable to you that the person who mirrored your best traits was actually the devil in a red dress. In hindsight, it’s much easier to recognize … Continue reading Quora Answers: Why Did I Ignore All The Red Flags?
Quora Answers: Is There A Formal Test/Assessment Procedure For Narcissistic Victim Syndrome? When I began to heal after ending my 18-year marriage to a Malignant Narcissist, I sought help from a psychiatrist for my son and myself. The doctor talked to us at length, both together and separately. He explained that Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome isn’t recognized as an official diagnosis. It is, however, a very real condition that is often accompanied by complex PTSD, which is a recognized diagnosis. I had heard of PTSD, of course, but I knew nothing about CPTSD. The difference is that PTSD is generally associated … Continue reading Narcissistic Victim Syndrome And CPTSD
Quora Answers: Do Flying Monkeys Pretend To Take Your Side? She Admits He’s Abusive And Complains About Him. Then She Turns Around And Shows Me Posts About How Much He Loves His New GF. Flying monkeys will definitely pretend to take your side when they’re trying to manipulate you on behalf of the Narcissist. However, I’m not so sure that’s the case here. Two possible scenarios come to mind. One is that she’s also a Narcissist, and is enjoying herself at your expense. It could be a version of the mean-sweet cycle in toxic romantic relationships. She pretends to be … Continue reading Flying Monkey, Narcissist, Or Another Victim?
Long-term exposure to Narcissistic Abuse can wreak havoc on victims long after leaving their abusers. Along with the devastating effects of PTSD and C-PTSD, survivors are left with permanent changes to their brains. In other words, repeated emotional trauma, over … Continue reading Quora Answers: What Are The Long-Term Effects Of Narcissistic Abuse?