Quora Answers: The Narcissist’s Wife And Spite

Two Months After Surgery. Notice The Scar On My Neck. Did You Cheat On Your Narcissist? Yes, I did. Before I go any further, let me say that I’m not proud of it. Not because of anything having to do with him. But because I believe it’s wrong. Despite having had an awful marriage, and being divorced, I still believe in the institution of marriage. I don’t think it’s right to be unfaithful to one’s spouse. With that said, I’ll tell you why I cheated on him. I’m not justifying my actions. But simply telling you my mindset at the … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Narcissist’s Wife And Spite

Quora Answers: The Slighted Narcissist

What Seemingly Immediately Happened When Due To A Perceived Slight, A Narcissist Became Angry At His Relationship Partner? What happened to me when my Malignant Narcissist ex-husband felt slighted ranged from total degradation to extreme physical violence. Whether the perceived … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Slighted Narcissist

Quora Answers: Narcissistic Abuse Defined

How Is Narcissistic Abuse Different From Other Emotional And Mental Abuse? I’m basing this answer purely from my own perspective and experiences. Narcissistic abuse is emotional and mental abuse, but it doesn’t stop there. It also can include physical, verbal, sexual, mental, and financial abuse, to name a few. What makes it different is the sabotage factor. Narcissists intentionally set their victims up for a fall because they enjoy watching them crash. They plot and scheme to cause chaos in the lives of the people who love them most. Narcissists deliberately try to drive their victims crazy. Their ultimate goal … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissistic Abuse Defined

Quora Answers: Narcissists And Domestic Violence

What Made You Finally Leave The Narcissist? Like most victims of domestic violence and narcissistic abuse, it took several escape attempts before I finally left my Malignant Narcissist husband for good. We had been together for 18 years. And I took my share of abuse throughout those years. I won’t go into the dynamics of why it took so long for me to leave permanently. But it definitely wasn’t because I enjoyed being abused. That is such a horrible thing for a victim to be accused of. Especially when it’s coming from people she cares about. As much as I … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists And Domestic Violence