Quora Answers: Recognizing Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Do You Find It Relatively Easy To Spot People With NPD? I wish I could say I can easily identify anyone with even a mild case of NPD from a mile away. For the most part, my intuition is extremely … Continue reading Quora Answers: Recognizing Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Quora Answers: Understanding Narcissistic Personality Disorder And Psychopathy

Why Does A Narcissist Have To Belittle Others To Feel Great? To completely understand why narcissists belittle others, one has to understand psychopathy and Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Narcissists are obsessed with controlling their victims. They can’t control people who have healthy boundaries and self-esteem. So they have to destroy yours by belittling, teasing, and with triangulation, manufactured jealousy, and mean-sweet cycles. They also do it to cause their partners to self-destruct once they start to see cracks in the narcissist’s mask. When a victim points out inconsistencies, the abuser fears that he’s losing control. He wants to make her feel … Continue reading Quora Answers: Understanding Narcissistic Personality Disorder And Psychopathy

Quora Answers: Narcissists And Sexual Intimacy

Is Sex The Only Way A Narcissist Can Feel Close To Somebody? It may surprise you to know that a narcissist doesn’t feel close to someone during sex at all. They pretend to, of course. They tell you they do. And they make you believe they feel connected to you. But narcissists aren’t capable of forming that kind of attachment. They basically just use their partner as a masturbation tool. During the lovebombing stage, sex with a narcissist can be extremely exciting. They touch you in all the right places. They say all the right things. And they manufacture a … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists And Sexual Intimacy

Quora Answers: Are Men Who Are Self-Absorbed Narcissists?

What Is A Narcissist? There are certain traits and characteristics known to narcissists that you should be aware of. Keep in mind that not all narcissists display all traits. But if you know a man who displays several of the behaviors listed below, he’s likely a narcissist. What To Look For: 1.) Narcissists will never admit to wrongdoing, even if you catch them red-handed. 2.) They always play the victim. Always. 3.) Their words and actions don’t match, and their stories don’t add up. 4.) They exaggerate their talents, abilities, and accomplishments. 5.) They are compulsive liars and cheaters. But … Continue reading Quora Answers: Are Men Who Are Self-Absorbed Narcissists?

Quora Answers: Narcissists And Second Chances

What Can The Wife Of A Narcissist Expect After She Agrees To Try Again And Not Get Divorced? What Are The Signs She Is Getting Devalued Again? Expect a renewed, albeit short, version of the lovebombing stage. Followed by new and more sinister devaluation methods. Far worse than anything you experienced before. Your narcissist husband will seem sincere at first. And you’ll think you made the right choice by not divorcing him. He’ll tell you how much the marriage means to him. He’ll thank you for giving him another chance. And promise you that he’s learned his lesson. He’ll probably … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists And Second Chances

Quora Answers: Narcissists And Illicit Drugs

Has A Narcissist Ever Drugged You In Order To Use Your Fingerprint To Access Your Phone? My Malignant Narcissist ex-husband drugged me on many occasions. For many reasons. And always without my knowledge. One morning he cooked breakfast. Which wasn’t unusual. But he didn’t eat any of it. Which was very unusual. He just sat there and watched our son and me while we ate. Within a short time my eyes began to get heavy and I started to feel very dizzy. The same thing happened to my son. We both quickly fell into a deep sleep. And didn’t wake … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists And Illicit Drugs

Quora Answers: Exposing The Narcissist

Have You Ever Publicly Exposed Your Narcissist For Who They Are? Yes. As a matter of fact, I expose my Malignant Narcissist ex-husband publicly on an almost daily basis. I started answering questions about narcissism on Quora. Gradually, I began to post my answers on social media. My narcissism posts started gaining in popularity, so I started my own blog. I don’t hold back about the evils of narcissists, either. I have told about my ex-husband’s sexual perversions, and written often about the physical, emotional, and financial abuse I suffered at his hands. I even posted his mug shot, name, … Continue reading Quora Answers: Exposing The Narcissist

Quora Answers: The Stigma Of Narcissistic Abuse

Why Does It Offend People When You Talk About Narcissistic Abuse? Probably because they don’t believe us. That’s the impression I got from people I used to try to tell. Those who haven’t been through it themselves can’t fathom what kind of atrocities victims have endured. That’s one of the reasons raising awareness of narcissistic abuse has been such an uphill battle for advocates and survivors. When I try to look at it objectively, I understand their positions to a certain extent. Hell, I lived it for years and I had trouble believing it. Most people have never faced true … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Stigma Of Narcissistic Abuse