He’s been telling his ex these things throughout their entire relationship, so he’ll definitely continue. But he won’t stop there. Narcissists are always on the hunt for new sources of supply, regardless of how many current sources they have at any given time. They repeat the same patterns with each source, and very often, the same words. During the lovebombing stage, the narcissist convinces his victim that she is his soulmate, and that he’s never felt so close to anyone before. This is his way of manufacturing a bond that will be strong enough to endure the devaluation stage. Victims … Continue reading My Narc Ex Told Me I Was His Soulmate. Now He’s Gone Back To His Ex. Is He Telling Her The Same Thing? We Only Split 3 Weeks Ago.