Quora Answers: May I Ask Your Advice? I’m Having A Really Bad Time After Being Discarded By My Narcissist Ex, And I Just Now Realized He’s A Narcissist. First and foremost, have mercy on yourself. Understand that you are not to blame for being conned by a narcissist. So many people who have never been entwined in a narcissist’s web of lies falsely believe that it wouldn’t happen to them. They are dead wrong. It can happen to anybody. Prepare yourself mentally for pain. Think about what you’re going to go through on your path to recovery in the same … Continue reading Processing Pain Is Necessary In Order To Heal From Narcissistic Abuse